Archive for December 2005

Brokeback Mountain

Thursday, December 22nd, 2005

My turn to weigh in on “Brokeback Mountain”.

Some of my friends loved it, some merely liked it. It’s been hyped a lot and certain people can be forgiven for not feeling it lived up to the hype.

This movie was so good on several levels. Others have commented on the acting, but I’d like to focus on everything else other than the acting (which was good). First of all, this is a hauntingly beautiful movie. The cinematography was amazing – beautiful mountains, streams, horses, and so on. It was visually stunning to look at (excepting the makeup problem James mentioned). This was bolstered by an amazing soundtrack, including originally scored music with a Western style that perfectly complemented the theme and look of the movie. After the credits began to roll, Willie Nelson’s voice began crooning “He Was a Friend of Mine,” a beautiful song that ends the movie perfectly. A better song could not have been selected for that spot.

The story is also beautiful. It was adapted from an award-winning short story by Annie Proulx, who I had never heard of before the movie, and turned into a screenplay by Larry McMurtry, widely known and respected (especially by manly-men) for writing “Lonesome Dove” and many Western novels. The story is quite deep, illustrating how sometimes love can be painful and true feelings can be difficult to put into words (for some, like Ennis Del Mar).

This movie satisfied me. One reason is that it has the potential to reach and touch a wide audience – hopefully, a straight audience who hasn’t been exposed to gay themes before, other than in Will & Grace and “Queer Eye”. It was, in my view, the first gay-themed movie I have seen that didn’t have such a low budget that it looked like it was filmed on a ten year old Sony Handycam, where the acting wasn’t hammy, overdone and/or half-done, and didn’t focus on first loves or sex. “The Broken Hearts Club” comes close, but “Brokeback Mountain” is a better film.

“Brokeback” presents to mainstream America two gay men who aren’t feminine, who aren’t obsessed with sex and drugs, and who simply want to live their lives together. The concept is simple, and the movie presents that simple concept while illustrating how complicated that often is for gay men. It illustrates also how easy it is for gay men to slip into the role of a heterosexual; getting married and having children, yet still finding themselves unfulfilled and knowing they aren’t being true to themselves. For me, this is something that the religious right needs to see in order to help them understand that silly issue of “choice.”

Unfortunately, some people will never consider seeing it, based simply on the theme, and that’s just sad.

Current mood: Contemplative
Current music: “I Don’t Want To Say Goodbye” – Teddy Thompson

Monopoly

Saturday, December 17th, 2005

Bobby introduced us to a game called Munchkin, which is great fun. It contains cards that you draw and the game unfolds based on the cards the players draw and the way they are played. You can even create your own cards to add a new element to the game.

Here are some Monopoly cards I’d like to see.

Current Mood: happy
Current Music: “Christmas Boogie” – Fisher, Shannon & McIver

Antiques

Tuesday, December 6th, 2005

We have two interns in our office, both of whom will graduate from college in May ’06 but neither of whom have ever operated a typewriter.

Current mood: amused
Current music: “All I Want For Christmas is a Real Good Tan” – Kenny Chesney

Concerts

Sunday, December 4th, 2005

So I finally saw the Rolling Stones on Tuesday. Layton wrote a really excellent summary and I won’t try to post a sorry, half-assed excuse of something similar. Great show, loved it.

Got to thinking about the shows I’ve been to, so here’s a list of who I’ve seen perform live. The number in parenthesis is the number of times I’ve seen them if it’s more than once:

Jimmy Buffett (12)
The Black Crowes (4)
The Tragically Hip (3)
R.E.M. (2)
Counting Crows (2)
The Neville Brothers (2)
Hootie & The Blowfish (2)
Crosby, Stills & Nash (2)
Ian Moore (2)
Elton John
Pink Floyd
The Rolling Stones
U2
Pearl Jam
Van Halen
ZZ Top
Lynyrd Skynyrd
Steve Winwood
Violent Femmes
Fiona Apple
The Iguanas
Chicago
Willie Nelson
Jerry Jeff Walker
Randy Travis
Kenny Rogers
Ronnie Milsap
Eddie Rabbitt
Steve Wariner
Dannii Minogue (OK, she did one song at Sydney G&L Mardi Gras)

Some shows I need to see, in order of importance:

Eric Clapton
Elton John (need to see him again, because the first was a poor seat (GA) and a poor venue (Starplex) and needs to be rectified!
Madonna
Prince

I’m open to suggestions.